
North of Dallas
Online Therapy in Plano, Texas
Plano lies mostly in Collin County, with a small western piece in Denton County, north of Dallas. Vanessa Gross, LMFT, offers Plano adults secure video sessions focused on stress and burnout, anxiety, or the questions that come with midlife and the years after it.
Plano, Collin County and the Location Rule
Since Texas is where Vanessa holds her license, the one location requirement is that you are in Texas for each session. That covers all of Plano, the nearby cities of Allen, Richardson, Murphy and Carrollton, the rest of Collin County, and everywhere else in the state.
Stress, Burnout and Anxiety
Burnout tends to show up as exhaustion and distance: you go through the motions at work and at home, and things you used to care about feel far away. Anxiety leans toward worry about what might go wrong next. When work, family and health all want something at once, it is common to have some of each.
Vanessa works with stress and burnout and anxiety using CBT to question the rules you run on, ACT to clarify what matters enough to protect, and mindfulness-based skills for the moments when your body is still braced long after the meeting ended.

What Midlife Can Stir Up
Vanessa works with adults of every age, including people over 65, and brings 7 years of practice to that work. Midlife and beyond tends to bring a particular set of questions, often several at once:
- Kids leaving home, or moving back in after you had adjusted to the quiet.
- Parents who need more help, and siblings who disagree about what kind.
- A body that is changing, and feelings about getting older that catch you off guard.
- A career that looks different from the one you planned, with less time left to change course.
An Hour That Fits Between Everything Else
A video session asks for one private hour and no travel. You might take it from a bedroom while the house is empty or from a closed room at work over lunch. The hour you book is the hour you spend, which matters when your calendar already belongs to several other people.
Questions
Frequently Asked Questions
The two do different jobs. Time off can restore some energy, but it leaves untouched the habits that led to burnout, such as saying yes to everything or treating rest as something to earn. Sessions look at those patterns and at what would need to change for a return to work, or a different kind of work, to feel sustainable. If you are weighing a leave, therapy can help you think that decision through too.
The label matters less than what is underneath it. Questions about work, marriage, health and meaning often surface together in the 50s, sometimes after years of putting other people first. Sessions give those questions room without pushing you toward a dramatic decision, so you can sort out which changes you actually want and which feelings mainly need to be heard.
Both. Sessions are conversations first, and they also include skills you can use the same day: CBT techniques for catching stress-driven thoughts, ACT exercises for clarifying what matters, mindfulness practices for settling your body, and DBT skills for getting through the hardest moments. Vanessa adjusts the mix to what helps you, and she welcomes open dialog about what is and isn't working.
Related Pages

Anxiety or Burnout?
How anxiety and burnout differ, where they overlap, how each can feed the other, and when to talk with a therapist.Read More
CBT
CBT looks at how thoughts, feelings and actions feed each other, and Vanessa pairs its practical exercises with a client-centered relationship.Read More
Online in Texas
How online therapy with Vanessa Gross, LMFT, works for adults and couples anywhere in Texas, from the first phone call to regular sessions.Read More
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